
Late life love: Things to consider
Written by R. A. Stewart
Getting involved with someone new late in life may sound like a good idea but there are financial considerations to consider not for yourself and your own family.
If you are receiving government support then you will be on the married rate whatever that is. It is your obligation to notice them of your new relationship status. Failure to do so may result in legal hassles later on.
Your will is something which needs to be changed when a new relationship starts. This will have serious implications for your children or whoever you intended to leave your assets to when you pass on. Your new spouse or partner will be entitled to everything irrespective of any promises made prior to entering into a new relationship.
There could be a situation whereby your family’s assets will be transferred to your spouse’s family should you pass on first.
Men in particular have to be wary of gold diggers and scammers.
There are people out there who prey on the emotions of others. Stories appear on the news occasionally of men who fell victim to romance scams.
As for gold diggers, some women are more interested in what’s in your wallet than what’s in your heart. Someone with discernment and common sense will know the motives of potential partners.
There are some things which you need to consider when entering into a relationship late in life.
- Has this person got a good credit rating?
This may seem an unromantic question but if you are dating someone with a poor credit rating then you expose yourself to their debts. It could alter your estate planning as your spouse’s creditors could take a chunk off your estate.
- It can be difficult to change one’s existing lifestyle to accommodate someone else’s wants.
- Marriage may change your tax status, therefore it will pay to get advice on this.
- Marrying someone who has dependent children will make you equally responsible for child maintenance if your new spouse has children from a previous relationship.
- Estate planning needs to be carefully considered because the new relationship status will change who gets what if one person passes on. Clear communication with family members is essential. It is also important to get legal advice. This needs to be done prior to entering into a new relationship.
- Consider a prenuptial agreement in the event that the relationship turns sour.
- Placing your assets in a trust may be right for you if your desire is to leave your assets to your own family.
It is worth noting that as far as retirement savings go. Any contributions made to your kiwisaver during a relationship are considered matrimony assets, but only contributions made during the term of the relationship. The rules may be different in your own country regarding pensions.
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