
Written by R. A. Stewart
Do you feel as though you are just going through the motions as far is everyday life is concerned? Do you have nagging thoughts in the back of your mind that you should do things differently to spice things up?
This kind of thinking is the “fresh start effect”, and this takes place at significant dates in our calendar. The New Year, Birthdays, and Anniversaries being the most popular days for the fresh start effect to to present.
Wanting things to be better for ourselves is a part of growing as a human being, as long as this is not an endless dissatisfaction with your life irrespective of your personal circumstances. If this is the case then you will end up hopping from one job to another, one relationship to another, and so forth.
At the other extreme, staying in your comfort zone can become like a prison where you have given yourself a life-sentence.
If on the other hand, you feel the itch to do something different, then these indicators may point in your direction that change is needed.

Here are some questions to check in with.
- Are you bored with your routines?
- Do you set the same goals every year?
- Are you excited about what the year brings or are you hoping that is passes without much disruption to your routine?
- Are you or have you learned anything new or met new people this year?
- Is there anything you do which requires courage?
- What has been the highlight of your year so far?
- Would you be happy if nothing at all changed this year?
Working in the same job for say five years is called five years of experience, but is it just one year’s experience repeated five times? If your entire life looks exactly the same as it did ten years ago are you comfortable with that?
This is not to say that you should change jobs just for the sake of it because the bills have to be paid. It is possible to stay in the same job for decades but be fulfilled in all other areas of your life and be satisfied with that. Having a fulfilled life outside of work makes going to work easier. It is something to talk about with your work colleagues.
Always remember, it’s your life, you don’t need anyone’s permission to question whether you are in the right job or career. You are allowed to be all that you are destined to be- or at least try to be, even if you don’t succeed. If you don’t step out of your comfort zone you will never know what might have been.
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