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How to Save Money on an Overseas Holiday

Traveling overseas is an exciting experience, but it can also be expensive. Between flights, accommodation, food, and activities, costs can add up quickly. However, with careful planning and smart strategies, you can enjoy an amazing trip without breaking the bank. Here’s how to save money on your next overseas holiday.

1. Travel During the Off-Season

One of the easiest ways to save money is by avoiding peak travel times. Flights and hotels are significantly cheaper during the off-season, and you’ll also encounter fewer crowds. Research the best time to visit your destination—often, the shoulder seasons (just before or after peak times) offer good weather at lower prices.

2. Book Flights Early and Be Flexible

Airfare is usually one of the biggest expenses. To save:

  • Book in advance (3-6 months before your trip for the best deals).
  • Use flight comparison tools like Skyscanner, Google Flights, or Kayak.
  • Be flexible with dates—flying mid-week is often cheaper than weekends.
  • Consider budget airlines, but check baggage fees to avoid hidden costs.

3. Choose Affordable Accommodation

Instead of expensive hotels, consider:

  • Hostels (many offer private rooms if you prefer privacy).
  • Airbnb or vacation rentals (great for groups or longer stays).
  • Guesthouses or homestays (often cheaper and more authentic).
  • Loyalty programs (if you frequently travel, hotel points can lead to free stays).

4. Use Public Transportation

Taxis and ride-sharing services can drain your budget quickly. Instead:

  • Take trains, buses, or metros—many cities offer tourist passes for unlimited travel.
  • Walk or bike—it’s free and a great way to explore.
  • Consider overnight trains or buses to save on accommodation while traveling.

5. Eat Like a Local

Dining in tourist areas is often overpriced. To cut costs:

  • Eat at local markets or street food stalls (authentic and budget-friendly).
  • Avoid restaurants near major attractions—walk a few blocks for better prices.
  • Book accommodation with a kitchen to prepare simple meals.
  • Look for lunch specials—many restaurants offer cheaper midday menus.

6. Find Free or Low-Cost Activities

You don’t need to spend a fortune to have fun. Try:

  • Free walking tours (tip-based, so you pay what you can).
  • Museums with free entry days (many offer discounted or free hours).
  • Parks, beaches, and hiking trails (nature is often free!).
  • Student or senior discounts (always carry ID if you qualify).

7. Avoid Unnecessary Fees

Bank fees and poor exchange rates can eat into your budget. To avoid them:

  • Use a no-foreign-transaction-fee credit card (check with your bank).
  • Withdraw cash wisely—use ATMs affiliated with major banks to avoid high fees.
  • Avoid currency exchange kiosks at airports (they have terrible rates).

8. Pack Smart to Avoid Extra Costs

Packing efficiently can save you money:

  • Bring reusable items (water bottle, shopping bag) to avoid buying them.
  • Pack essentials like sunscreen and medications—they’re often pricier abroad.
  • Check baggage allowances to avoid overweight fees.

9. Use Travel Rewards and Discounts

  • Sign up for airline and hotel loyalty programs.
  • Use credit card points for flights or upgrades.
  • Check for discounts (student, military, or senior rates).

10. Plan and Budget Ahead

Create a daily spending plan and track expenses with a travel app. Knowing where your money goes helps prevent overspending.

Final Thoughts

An overseas holiday doesn’t have to be expensive. By traveling off-season, booking smart, eating locally, and taking advantage of free activities, you can enjoy an incredible trip without draining your savings. With these tips, you’ll be able to explore the world affordably and make unforgettable memories.

Happy travels! 🌍✈️

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Kiwisaver Benefits for KIwis

Are you throwing money away?

 

Written by R. A. Stewart

 

New Zealand’s kiwisaver scheme is a retirement scheme for New Zealanders. There are many features and benefits of joining kiwisaver.

What is the difference between a feature and a benefit?

A feature of kiwisaver is that the money is locked up until you reach the age of 65.

The benefit is that you will have a nest egg waiting for you when you retire.

Here is the main benefit of kiwisaver. 

The government will deposit $520 into your kiwisaver providing your contribution is at least $1040 during that financial year.

People who are not contributing to kiwisaver or have not even joined are missing out on all of this money.

Why?

It is hard to fathom why anyone would not join kiwisaver. 

There will not be a single person who reaches the age of 65 who regrets that they contributed to kiwisaver all of their lives.

It is a matter of asking the question, “What will my future self thank my present self for”?

The key to kiwisaver is to keep contributing irrespective of what the markets are doing. 

Investors will be rewarded for their consistency.

Some people have prioritized other things such as sky TV, cats and dogs, lotto, smoking, and booze over their future prosperity.

It is all about choice and it is something everyone has. 

Any New Zealander is able to join kiwisaver.

Any one of any age, from the day a baby is born to those already retired. 

It is important to point out that only those aged from 18-65 are eligible for the government money. It is still worthwhile for those age groups which are not eligible for the government top up to join kiwisaver because it will give the young ones a head start in life and who knows, a rich uncle may leave them some money in his will. It doesn’t pay to fall out with your family by making false allegations about your cousin.

The retired folk can treat kiwisaver as an investment; one which you have access to.

There are circumstances when you are able to withdraw money from kiwisaver, they are:

(a) For bond money if applying for a flat to rent, but only under thirty year olds are eligible to apply.

(b) You may use a portion of your kiwisaver as a deposit on your first home. Most people who take this option are in their thirties.

(c) Moving overseas permanently.

(d) Terminal illness

(e) Hardship

There are some hoops to jump through when trying to withdraw your kiwisaver for hardship reasons. 

There are several books on personal finance which I recommend with my favourite New Zealand authors being Frances Cook, Mary Holm, and Martin Hawes. Check them out. Maybe your local library will stock their books.

With so much information on personal finance available there is no excuse for being financially illiterate. Not joining kiwisaver when you have the means to is just stupidity.

If you are one of these people then you are just throwing money away

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The Percentage Formula

The Percentage Formula

Knowing how to work on percentages is a benefit in the area of finances.

If you are figuring out the return of your investments, you will need to know how to calculate percentages. 

Here is an example:

Your return on an investment of $100 is $7. The formula for working out your return in terms of percentage is:

(a) 7 multiplied by 100 =700

(b) The answer is a being divided by 100= 7%

Your return $7 is multiplied by 100

Your investment of $100 is divided by 700

Shirley has $5,000 in her personal savings account and has received $100 in interest off that money. In terms of percentage, what is her return on that money?

(a) $100 multiplied by 100 =$10,000

(b) 10,000 divided by 5,000= 2

Shirley has received 2% interest on her money.

This formula does not include tax so supposing Shirley pays 17.5% tax.

The formula for working out the tax which needs to be paid on interest is straight forward; it is:

Interest received (income) multiplied by the individual’s tax rate (17.5%).

In Shirley’s case, this is $100 multiplied by 17.5% equals $17.50.

Her net return on her money is $82.50.

17.5% is 0.175

An example such as this shows us the futility of just leaving your money in the bank without investing it. The combination of inflation and taxation means that those who do not invest are losing the value of their money. 

Saving money is a good habit to get into, but it is also important to get into the habit of investing. This increases your financial literacy.

Some people do not invest their money because they are afraid of losing their money, yet they will buy lottery tickets which is a sure-fire way of losing. 

Knowing how to figure out percentages is a skill which will assist you in different areas of your life.

Here are some examples of where knowing how to calculate percentages will be a valuable skill.

Shopping & Discounts: Calculate discounts during sales (e.g., “30% off”).

Tips & Service Charges: Determine how much to tip at restaurants (e.g., 15% or 20% of the bill).

Tax Calculations: Compute sales tax (e.g., 8% tax on a purchase).

Budgeting & Expenses: Track spending (e.g., “20% of my income goes to rent”).

Loan & Credit Card Interest: Understand interest rates on loans or credit cards.

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Leaving a legacy for generations

Leaving a legacy for generations

Written by R. A. Stewart

“A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children.” Proverbs 13:22

I watched a TV program recently about a tree farmer in Finland whose family has been harvesting trees for over 300 years. As he told the reporter, he harvests the trees his grandfather planted while he plants the trees that his grandchildren will harvest. This went on for generations in this family.

What we do today will affect the future generations.

My great grandfather operated a brewery near Greymouth on New Zealand’s South Island. Prior to this brewery getting established, he had financial problems after his first brewery in Westport, sixty miles north of Greymouth was blown over by a south westerly wind. This occurred in 1879. 

He managed to get back on his feet and get another brewery going within 10 years.

This proved to be successful and he built up his assets which included a farm 20 miles north of the brewery.

He also had a bit of money behind him as well.

Future generations have been blessed as my greatgrandfather left his farms to his sons, who in turn left it to their sons. One of his farms is being run by his greatgrandson.

Leaving a legacy such as a farm will enable future generations to make a living off the farm as their parents and grandparents did.

However, when it comes to leaving them a sum of money, should you?

It all depends on whether they are good stewards of their own finances. If they cannot handle even handling their own money then they cannot be trusted to handle yours. 

A responsible and mature person will have joined kiwisaver, the New Zealand retirement scheme. If from New Zealand or their country’s retirement scheme if they are from a country other than New Zealand.

Now consider this, would you leave money to someone who:

Is not joined to a retirement scheme yet has subscriptions to netflix and satellite TV?.

Is not interested in obtaining a financial education yet buys a lottery ticket every single week?

Spends their money in the pub?

Will only spend their money on their hobbies?

Has no savings of their own yet smokes cigarettes?

Any person with any sense will know the character of their own family and ensure that their estates are distributed to those who are responsible.

Some folk will have all kinds of excuses for why they are in a financial mess, but not one of them will admit that they are living beyond their means. People who fit in the categories listed above are all living beyond their means.

If you cannot even be trusted to handle your own finances then you cannot be trusted with what belongs to someone else.

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The Cost of Financial Illiteracy

Written by R. A. Stewart

There is a cost to financial illiteracy and this cost can be passed down to generations and society. Financial illiteracy leads to poor decision making, debts, and missed opportunity for wealth building. 

  1. Poor choices

Financial illiteracy leads to impulse spending, living beyond one’s means, which leads to financial problems. All of this leads to borrowing which in turn leads to debt. Such people are often vulnerable to loan sharks which leads them to a cycle of debt.

Not surprisingly, these people have no savings, therefore, are caught out when some unexpected bill arrives such as an appliance breaking down, or the car needs fixing.

  1. Increased Debt and Financial Stress

Being unable to pay bills on time will lead to financial stress and mental health issues. It will also lead to relationship issues as lenders are sometimes family members who lend money, often with no interest attached may not see their money again. The borrower will sometimes use the excuse, “I did such and such for you”, in order to squirrel out of repaying the loan. This leads to resentment on the part of family members.

Smart money managers will not borrow for consumable items. “If you don’t have the money, you don’t buy it” is a good rule to live by”.

  1. Missed Investment opportunities

People with no financial literacy will not invest their money and therefore miss out on the opportunities to increase their wealth.  They will leave their money in a personal savings account which pays little interest which does not even cover the cost of inflation. As far as retirement goes, they have little savings to fall back on in later years.

  1. Vulnerability to Scams and Fraud

Financially illiterate are unaware of the red flags which are common in scams, therefore, are vulnerable to be taken in by them.

  1. Higher costs for Financial Services

A financially illiterate person will choose financial services and insurance not applicable to their needs or accept advice which is not compatible with their personal circumstances.

  1. Impact on Future Generations

Parents who are not financially literate may pass on their traits and attitudes to their children, passing on their poor financial skills to the next generation. This could also mean that they are unable to contribute to their children’s education, limiting future opportunities.

  1. Health and Lifestyle Consequences

Poor financial choices can also lead to poor health outcomes. It can also inhibit your ability to purchase a home, start a business, or pursue higher education.

  1. Limited LIfe Choices

Lack of financial skills will inhibit your ability to enjoy a more fruitful life. If you are not living within your means then overseas travel, further education, and starting a business will all be out of reach. Certainly, people who have no savings whatsoever are not fit to be in business because if you cannot even manage your own money then the lack of financial management will mean certain failure for the business.

“Financial literacy is not an expense, it’s an investment in your future.”

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Should the retired join Kiwisaver?

Should the retired join Kiwisaver?

Written by R. A. Stewart

Kiwisaver is New Zealand’s retirement scheme. It is a scheme which locks money in until the retiring age of 65. A change of rules to Kiwisaver in recent years has enabled those who have reached the retirement age of 65 and who are not already a member of Kiwisaver to join.

This leaves the question “Are there any advantages for anyone aged 65+ to join Kiwisaver?”

My answer to this question is “Yes”.

In fact there are several benefits of joining Kiwisaver after 65.

If someone is in such a financial position to be able to contribute to Kiwisaver at a later stage in life then why not? Any spare money which you have available for emergencies will help make your retirement easier as far as having an emergency fund.

If you access your bank account via the internet (Who doesn’t?) and use your phone to do your banking then having your savings in Kiwisaver will make it virtually impossible for scammers to get access to it. Kiwisaver members who have tried to access their funds which are in Kiwisaver have to jump through a few hoops to get it, including the over 65s.

At least it makes you a lot safer as the over 65s are prime targets for scammers and gold diggers.

There may not be any of the incentives such as the annual $520 government money available for the over 65s but it is still a good idea for retirees to hold on to their kiwisaver account and even contribute to it because any money which you have available acts as a financial shock and one of these is ill health which are more likely to happen to older people. Unexpected medical bills can be financially draining, therefore, having the funds can be less worrisome for the over 65s.

As a retiree you are given several options as to how you manage your kiwisaver which makes it very flexible.

You can withdraw all or some of your funds in kiwisaver.

You can opt out or opt in.

As you get older, medical bills can become a problem, therefore, any money you have behind you can make life less challenging for you.

What happens to your kiwisaver account when you pass on?

You can name any family member as beneficiaries of any money you have in kiwisaver. It will be treated just like any other asset you own as far as your estate goes and if you do not have a will then it is likely that legal fees wil;l take up a portion of your assets as the legal process will decide who gets what.

Having a will will make this part of your family’s life easier toi deal with.

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Kiwisaver for kids: what you should know

Kiwisaver for kids: what you should know

Written by R. A. Stewart

Some people may be asking if they should sign their kids up for kiwisaver. My answer to that question is a resounding “Yes” though some people might have a different opinion.

Kiwisaver is New Zealand’s retirement scheme. Anyone who is a New Zealand resident or citizen can join and take full advantage of the incentives the government provides for members of kiwisaver. There is no age restriction. Anyone can join from newborn to those already in retirement. However, the incentives do not kick in until a child reaches the age of 18 and stop at age 65, the retirement age in New Zealand.

An under eighteen year old or over sixty five year old in employment can make contributions toward their kiwisaver through their wages; this could be 2%, 3%, 4%, or 8% of their gross wages but their employer has no obligation to contribute to their kiwisaver, even though some choose to.

There is the option of making voluntary contributions toward kiwisaver and this is something which a lot of people do.

What are the benefits of someone under eighteen signing up for kiwisaver?

There are many and the number one reason is that it will improve a child’s financial literacy. It will help them understand how the markets operate and why their kiwisaver balances go up and down.

Another benefit of kids joining kiwisaver early is that it will give their relatives an opportunity to contribute to their kiwisaver; this means that by the time a child reaches eighteen, they may have  a more than useful kiwisaver balance. 

It is possible to use some of your kiwisaver to purchase your first home but you have to have contributed towards the kiwisaver for at least five years. It is not known if the years prior to a member’s eighteenth birthday count. Generally, most home deposit withdrawals are made by those aged over thirty so it may not be such a big deal.

Those aged under 30 are able to access their kiwisaver for a rental bond. The bond is returned to the kiwisaver account after it is returned by the landlord.

The other ways kiwisaver can be accessed prior to turning 65 is in the case of a terminal illness or going overseas permanently. Many folk have made kiwisaver withdrawals due to hardship and this number has increased during the Global Financial Crisis but it should only be as a last resort.

Investors have to go through a lot of hoops in order to access their retirement savings prior to retiring. The purpose of kiwisaver is to build a nest egg for your retirement and to access it early really defeats the purpose of it.

Some people argue, “You can’t take it all with you,” or “I am young.” This kind of thing will lead to certain outcomes. You will be dead and leave your family with financial issues to deal with or you will be broke. The habit of saving money is a habit which will enable you to get the most out of life and the sooner this habit is formed the better off your kids will be in the long run.

Their future self will thank them for it.

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How Seniors Can Make Their Money Work in Retirement

Financial Freedom After 60: The Best Investment Options for Seniors

Written by R. A. Stewart

 

Your age is a crucial factor in establishing your savings and investing strategy. Your 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s are your savings years. It is these years when you build up your assets. 

Your 60s and 70s can be considered your spending years. It is when you tick off items on your bucket list while you are able to.

That does not mean that you do not have to work, a lot of older people are taking this option, not because they cannot make ends meet on their pension, but because they enjoy what they are doing.

In New Zealand, retirees will have access to their kiwisaver account once they reach the age of 65. Money invested in kiwisaver will be in growth, balanced, or conservative funds. Most people during their working life opt for growth or balanced funds.

It is time to decide whether to stay with the status quo or invest in more conservative funds. 

Your age and your health are the two most important factors in deciding which fund to invest your money in. 

Older people do not have time on their side to overcome financial setbacks such share market falls and so forth, therefore if you are 60+ it is a good idea to lean toward more conservative investments but still retain some exposure to risk.

It is worth mentioning at this point that New Zealand financial advisor and writer Frances Cook has a formula for calculating how much exposure you should have based on your age, and it is this…

Subtract your age from 100.

If for example you are aged 60 then only 40% of your portfolio should be invested in the share market.

I do not necessarily agree with this formula and my exposure to the share market is more than her formula suggests I have.

However, that is a personal choice; one that I do not necessarily recommend to you because your circumstances will be different as they are for different people.

If you are connected to the internet and you have a lot of spare cash in your account then I suggest that you place most of your money into an account that is not connected to internet banking. This is to reduce your chances of becoming a victim of internet scammers. 

With internet banking being the norm, this could be difficult in the future though.

In any case I still believe that it will pay to arrange your finances so that if you fall victim to a scammer then not all of your money will be lost. 

Don’t leave all of your money in the one account for goodness sake as some victims of scammers have.

If you are traveling then make sure you don’t have access to your life savings because if you do then so will be a scammer if they manage to get hold of your login details. What I am trying to say is you should leave your entire life savings in an account which you use to do your daily spending. Keep it in a separate account from the account you do your day to day banking. The 

Scammers have all kinds of ways to trick people into handing over their login details.

Anyone can be a victim so don’t be proud by saying “I am not that stupid.”

As you get older you will have to invest more conservatively; that does not necessarily mean transferring from growth to conservative funds but investing some of your current savings into low risk accounts. The deciding factor is your timeline. How soon you need the money and funds which are going to be used within 12 months are best invested conservatively.

 

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Elder Abuse: what it is

Elder Abuse: what it is

Written by R. A. Stewart

Elder Abuse may be a term you may not have heard of. It is a term that is being used more frequently than in the past so what does it mean?

It is when someone who is of the older generation is being taken advantage of. The abuse may not need to be of a financial nature. As with all kinds of abuse it could come in a number of forms; financial abuse

Not repaying loans

Unauthorised taking of money or other assets

Scams that rely on developing a relationship with the older person with the intention of taking their money and assets. Dating scams is an example of this.

Use of home without contributing to the costs.

Psychological abuse

This comes in many forms and could be threats, intimidation, and hostility.

Control

This can be making decisions on the behalf of the elder person or taking authority over their everyday life.

Isolation

Lack of affection

Ridicule, humiliation, and general put downs.

Physical

Intimidation

Threats of violence

Neglect

This could be neglecting the physical and emotional needs of the person.

Abandonment

This could be someone who is responsible for the care of an older person not fulfilling their obligations.

Many victims of Elder Abuse do not speak about what is happening because they are dependent on others for support. Low self-esteem is another reason why incidents are not reported by victims of elder abuse.

Elder Abuse victims are not necessarily in their eighties or nineties; they could just as easily be in their fifties or sixties and being young does not necessarily mean that you are immune to Elder Abuse. It is not recognised as such in the younger generation.

Those who like to control others will employ the same strategies irrespective of the age of their victims. They will:

  1. Use pets to control others.

Many people in bad relationships stay in the relationships for fear of something happening to their pets. They feel as though they are held hostage and are unable to escape from their situation.

  1. Intimidate their victims

Control Freaks use intimidation as a tool to gain power over others and as a result it leaves victims very down trodden and with a low self-esteem.

  1. Isolate others

Controlling people will isolate others from the outside world leaving them with no means of communication with others. 

  1. Financially controls

Controlling people will keep those that they control financially dependent on them and this makes it hard for victims to leave the situation. 

There are organisations available to help those who are victims of elder abuse. It is just a matter of finding the courage to pick up the phone or to tell someone.

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Pros and Cons of Mature Dating

The Pros and Cons of forming a new relationship late in life

Written by R. A. Stewart

A guy in a backpacking hostel asked me if I was married, and I said, “I don’t see the point at my age”. He said, “Some people get married in their nineties.”. 

I told him, “I just don’t see the point in that”.

Honestly, why would one ever consider it at that stage of life?

I have heard it said, “Everyone deserves happiness in their life”.

That seems to suggest that the couple were unhappy being single and if that is the case then they have a problem.

There is a saying, “love is blind,” and that is an apt summary of these late in life marriages because there are financial implications for these relationships. The main one being property ownership because each partner in the relationship is now entitled to half of all assets owned by them both. That may be fair enough but that inheritance which was intended for children or grandchildren may not be legally binding. As I understand it, when a couple enters into a new relationship, (marriage) then it means their previous will is now null and void and that they have to write a new one.

It is likely that when one of the partner’s passes on then the relatives of the remaining partner will get everything.

That means nothing for the family of the deceased.

Now, this may sound morbid or selfish when one speaks about money and relationships, but all of this has to be thought through. 

It is rather naive to think that there are no gold diggers out there who are willing to take vulnerable men to the cleaners, and these women will hang out on the same dating websites as their prey.

As for who gets what when someone passes; here is the order of priority.

  1. The spouse or partner 
  2. Children of the deceased
  3. Parents of the deceased
  4. Siblings of the deceased

Note: In New Zealand, if a couple have been living together in a de facto relationship for at least three years then everything they own is considered matrimonial property. 

This includes Kiwisaver, New Zealand’s retirement scheme, but only those contributions made during the term of the relationship.

It is no secret that there are men of an older generation who have been the victims of dating scams. The number one red flag in these scams is that a woman half your age contacts you out of the blue.

The number two red flag is that she wants to hasten the relationship, and the number three red flag is that she sends you some revealing photographs of herself. 

If someone can tap into your ego, and make you feel good about yourself they are on their way to taking advantage of you. 

Another method scammers will use is to manipulate your emotions. She will come up with a hard luck story and tell you that she needs money or this or that will happen. This strategy is called “manipulation by guilt.”

It is when someone tries to get you to do something by making you feel guilty.

You would think that men in their later years have acquired enough experience of human character, but then, you know what they say, “Love is blind!”

A lot of romance scam victims are too embarrassed to come forward and go to their bank or the police, but if you know someone in this situation, let them know that it has happened to a lot of others too.It is also important to know what your grandparents are doing behind a computer screen because it could mean that your inheritance is being sent to some stranger in a far flung part of the globe. 

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