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Elder Abuse: what it is

Elder Abuse: what it is

Written by R. A. Stewart

Elder Abuse may be a term you may not have heard of. It is a term that is being used more frequently than in the past so what does it mean?

It is when someone who is of the older generation is being taken advantage of. The abuse may not need to be of a financial nature. As with all kinds of abuse it could come in a number of forms; financial abuse

Not repaying loans

Unauthorised taking of money or other assets

Scams that rely on developing a relationship with the older person with the intention of taking their money and assets. Dating scams is an example of this.

Use of home without contributing to the costs.

Psychological abuse

This comes in many forms and could be threats, intimidation, and hostility.

Control

This can be making decisions on the behalf of the elder person or taking authority over their everyday life.

Isolation

Lack of affection

Ridicule, humiliation, and general put downs.

Physical

Intimidation

Threats of violence

Neglect

This could be neglecting the physical and emotional needs of the person.

Abandonment

This could be someone who is responsible for the care of an older person not fulfilling their obligations.

Many victims of Elder Abuse do not speak about what is happening because they are dependent on others for support. Low self-esteem is another reason why incidents are not reported by victims of elder abuse.

Elder Abuse victims are not necessarily in their eighties or nineties; they could just as easily be in their fifties or sixties and being young does not necessarily mean that you are immune to Elder Abuse. It is not recognised as such in the younger generation.

Those who like to control others will employ the same strategies irrespective of the age of their victims. They will:

  1. Use pets to control others.

Many people in bad relationships stay in the relationships for fear of something happening to their pets. They feel as though they are held hostage and are unable to escape from their situation.

  1. Intimidate their victims

Control Freaks use intimidation as a tool to gain power over others and as a result it leaves victims very down trodden and with a low self-esteem.

  1. Isolate others

Controlling people will isolate others from the outside world leaving them with no means of communication with others. 

  1. Financially controls

Controlling people will keep those that they control financially dependent on them and this makes it hard for victims to leave the situation. 

There are organisations available to help those who are victims of elder abuse. It is just a matter of finding the courage to pick up the phone or to tell someone.

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Prioritizing your spending

Prioritizing your spending

Written by R. A. Stewart

Life is all about making priorities and it is not all about money and how you prioritize your spending but about what you do with your time. We have different financial commitments and different levels of income but when it comes to time, we all have an allotted 24 hours in the day, no more and no less but our income and how we earn our income will have an effect on how much time we have to devote to the important things in our life.

Many people sacrifice their time for money by spending all of their time working leaving little time for anything else. They are out of balance.

If you have a specific goal in mind such as saving for a house deposit then the sacrifices may be worth it in the long term. Maybe because only you will know whether the long days were truly worth it. It all depends on what your priorities are.

What factors should you consider when setting priorities?

Here are several to consider:

Your commitments

Your debt levels

Your age

Your family circumstances

Your health

Your career

Your pets

It is important that you base your priorities on what is important to you and that you do not try to copy someone else’s figures. There is no one size that fits everyone; it is your own needs and wants which determine how you are going to prioritise your spending.

Everyone has different levels of commitments; these have to be managed as best as you can. Commitments can be financial such as a mortgage or other debt or something more personal such as a relationship. 

Your age is another factor; you are not going to take out a 30 year mortgage when you are 60. If you are in your twenties you will have different priorities. As a young investor you can take more risks with your investing strategy because you have more time to recover from a financial meltdown.

That does not mean being reckless with your investing but rather; taking calculated risks.

Your family circumstances are another factor to weigh up. If you have kids then you will have less disposable cash to play around with than if you are single. The flip side is that if you are in a relationship then you have the advantage of having two incomes which will make it easier to save for major life events such as having kids. It is a good idea to put aside money for this purpose.

Then there is your health to think about. If you are fit and healthy then that is great but as we all know, Father Time catches up on us sooner or later. If you have health issues which lessens your chances of reaching the retirement age then your priorities need to be different from those who are healthy.

Then your career or job is a priority. It has to be your top priority because it pays the bills. It is where you spend so much of your time so a carefully chosen career will help make your life more meaningful. Adding different strings to your bow will give you more options. Learning does not end once you leave school is a lifelong project.

Your pets can bring enjoyment to your life but they can also become a burden to your finances as a lot of people have found during the cost of living crisis. The SPCA were swamped with cats and dogs because people could not afford to keep them. When deciding whether to get a dog or a cat it is important to work out how much this is going to cost you. It is also important to consider the fact that keeping pets fits the discretionary spending category and that money spent on them will be better off going towards the mortgage if you have one or towards your retirement fund. 

As far as pets are concerned, many people let their hearts rule their heads; I mean honestly, why else would one spend a grand on a vet bill for a cat or even more than that on a dog when it would be cheaper just to have the animal put down?

 

This article is of the opinion of the writer and may not be applicable to your personal circumstances, therefore, discretion is advised. You may use this article as content for your ebook, website, or blog. Feel free to share this article.

 

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Investing in Gold

Investing in Gold

Written by R. A. Stewart

Is Gold a good investment?

That is a question I cannot give you an answer to because it is a bit like a “How long is a piece of string?” question.

Whether investing in something is good or bad really depends on your personal circumstances and where this investment fits in with your objectives.

Is the money/investment needed in the short term, medium term, or long term?

Once you have answered this question you will have a better idea of whether gold is a suitable investment.

Problem with gold is…

That it does not provide investors with an income. All they can expect is capital gains; that is, selling gold at a higher price than when it was bought for.

The Share market provides a dividend to shareholders of the various companies and there is the opportunity to profit from the increasing value of the shares. 

Another problem with holding physical golds is the storage costs and this can mitigate any capital gains from selling it.

Different ways of investing in gold

There are several ways of investing in gold and there are pros and cons with each of them.

The easiest way of investing in gold is to purchase shares in a gold mine but this is very risky and should only be done with money you can fully afford to lose. Your country’s stock market may have listed companies of gold mines.

Purchasing gold coins is another way. You will find gold coins listed on ebay but the downfall of investing in gold in this way is that the seller will seek the highest price possible for their coins; and it may not reflect it’s true value.

Buying gold from a dealer is another way but this is beyond the means of a lot of people and then there is the problem of storage not to mention the risk of theft.

Collecting gold jewellery is another way of investing in gold. Just as collecting other items such as postage stamps, old comics, or barbie dolls, they give enjoyment to the collector and the items are worth something when it comes time to sell.

Investing in gold as an interest

Gold can provide an added interest to your portfolio. If you have discretionary money to spend then investing in gold can add an extra string to your financial bow and if the investment turns to custard then there is no damage done. After all, millions of dollars are lost in lotteries every year and no one blinks an eye lid. Giving up lotteries and use the money to build up your gold investments should be your best approach. 

The risk of investing in gold

There are risks with investing in Gold as there are with other types of investments but these risks can be managed. It is important for investors to do their research in order to understand these risks. 

Investing in gold should not be an alternative to contributing to your country’s retirement scheme.

The rules of investing

The rules of investing are just as applicable with gold as they are with other types of investments. Where does gold fit into your overall investment strategy? If you have some disposable spending money to invest then investing in gold is a good option. It will provide an added interest to you; that is interest in terms of enjoyment such as a stamp collector would derive interest from his or her hobby.

It is certainly not wise to just purchase gold with money which you can ill afford to lose or to invest your whole life savings into it. That is just asking for trouble. 

To summarise

Investing in gold can provide you with an interesting string to your financial portfolio, but it does have its pitfalls. It is important to weigh up the pros and cons and only invest money in gold which you can afford to lose. Read up on the subject and then decide whether gold is a suitable investment for you.

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3 Ways to lose during a Share Market Slump

It is easy to be very confident about your investments when all is going well and your investments are rising in value but it is when the market has taken a dive when your real character is revealed.

Investing needs to be done with the right mindset otherwise allowing your emotions to take over your decision making can turn out to be very costly in the long term.

The newspapers may say, “Investors have lost millions,” but the reality is they have lost nothing, well not unless they have sold their shares during a market slump.

If you have an investment strategy then the possibility of a downward trend should have been taken into account so a market downward trend will not be of a concern.

There are three ways which you can lose during a share market slide; here are are:

  1. Sell your shares

Selling your shares during a market slide is a guarantee that you will lose; more so if you bought your shares during the peak. The share market will have it’s ups and downs and is a long term game. If you are saving money for the short to medium term then investing in growth funds may not be the right place to have your money. On the flip side of that is a rising market can help you reach your savings goals faster. It is the catch 22 situation in that if there is an opportunity for a capital gain there is an opportunity for a capital loss.

  1. Change funds

Changing from growth funds to balanced or conservative during a market downturn is a way of guaranteeing a loss. In other words you are selling shares at a lower price than you bought them for. It is the issue of allowing your emotions to rule your better judgement. 

  1. Stop Contributions to your retirement fund

This is a sure way to lose during a market slump because you are missing out on bargains in the share market. You may not lose your money by not investing during a market slump but you are losing in other ways because if you decide to just leave your money in a low interest savings account the value of your savings is being eroded by inflation.

Talk about a sure fire loser!

The share market rewards consistency and that means making contributions through good times and bad. During times when the share market is during a bear market phase you will get shares at below their market value while during a bull market cycle you will get a lot of shares at above their market value. All of this will average out over a period of time and the longer you are involved in the share market and participating the more chance you give the law of averages to work in your favour.

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Join sharesies here: https://sharesies.nz/r/377DFM

 

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Avoid these three Financial Mistakes

Avoid these three Financial Mistakes

Written by R. A. Stewart

Building an investment portfolio is similar to building a relationship. It takes time and patience but over caution can be just as costly. A lot of tolerance is required because in finance and in life in general you do not always get your own way. Life has its own ups and it is during the downs that we show our true character. It is when our true colours come to the surface.

Human nature or emotion as it is can interfere with one’s better judgment. This applies to relationships and finance.

Here are the biggest mistakes made by investors.

Mistake number one-Greed

“If something is too good to be true then it almost certainly is,” but many people have fallen into this trap by investing in something which was offering above average returns. In doing so they completely ignored another rule in finance and that is to diversify. During the 2008 Global Financial Crisis many investors lost their entire life savings when various finance companies went under. Several people have their entire life savings invested in one company. Whatever has been reported about these companies it is up to investors to do their own due diligence and invest sensibly. Placing all of your eggs in one basket is certainly not investing sensibly. The key word for sensible investors is “diversify.” This minimizes risk. Two things to bear in mind is that when there is an opportunity for a capital gain as there is with shares, there is also the chance for a capital loss. The other thing to remember is that when you hear stories of someone who made a killing on the share market by placing all of their eggs in one basket, you seldom hear of individuals who tried the same thing and lost their money. Greed will eventually get the better of investors who thought they were smart enough to beat the market.

Mistake number two-Timidity

Playing it safe is risky. Being overcautious will mean that you miss out on opportunities which risk takers take advantage of. There is no suggestion that you should be reckless and ignore common sense precautions but in relationships you need to risk getting hurt in order to discover what you are looking for. As far as financial matters are concerned, you have to accept some level of risk but this is manageable by diversifying your portfolio. Managed Funds or Mutual Funds as they are also called is an excellent way for ordinary investors to get involved in the share market. In New Zealand, Kiwisaver, Sharesies, Kernel Wealth, Hatch, and Investnow are excellent platforms for ordinary investors to get involved in shares. If you are from the US you may want to look at Robinhood which operates in much the same way as Sharesies.

Mistake number three-Impatience

“It is time and not timing which is important in the share market,” is a cliche which is worth keeping in mind. Patience is a virtue and this is applicable to relationships and finances. Some people lack patience that they invest their money in abc shares then when their portfolio is stagnant they sell those and invest in def and sod’s law, the shares they sold at a lower price suddenly rises meaning they have missed out on any gains which would have recovered their losses. The share market is a long term gain. If you require the money in the short term then investing in shares may not be the right option. Bank deposit probably is but you have got to do your homework. 

It really is up to your own risk profile.

About this article

You may use this article as content for your blog/website and as content for your ebook. Feel free to share this article with others.

The information here is of the opinion of the writer and may not be applicable to your personal circumstances.

Invest in sharesies here:

Sharesies makes it possible for anyone to get into buying and selling shares. It is an online share market platform where you have the option of purchasing shares in individual companies or in various funds (managed/mutual funds). You can even start with $5. This is a no brainer because it gives investors young and not so young the chance to improve their financial literacy. There is certainly no substitute for experience when it comes to learning and this is applicable to everything else, not just investing.

Join sharesies here: https://sharesies.nz/r/377DFM

Disclaimer: I may receive a small sign up bonus if you join sharesies.

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3 FINANCIAL MISTAKES TO AVOID

Avoid these three Financial Mistakes

Building an investment portfolio is similar to building a relationship. It takes time and patience but over caution can be just as costly. A lot of tolerance is required because in finance and in life in general you do not always get your own way. Life has its own ups and it is during the downs that we show our true character. It is when our true colors come to the surface.

Human nature or emotion as it is can interfere with one’s better judgment. This applies to relationships and finance.

Here are the biggest mistakes made by investors.

Mistake number one-Greed

“If something is too good to be true then it almost certainly is,” but many people have fallen into this trap by investing in something which was offering above average returns. In doing so they completely ignored another rule in finance and that is to diversify. During the 2008 Global Financial Crisis many investors lost their entire life savings when various finance companies went under. Several people have their entire life savings invested in one company. Whatever has been reported about these companies it is up to investors to do their own due diligence and invest sensibly. Placing all of your eggs in one basket is certainly not investing sensibly. The key word for sensible investors is “diversify.” This minimizes risk. Two things to bear in mind is that when there is an opportunity for a capital gain as there is with shares, there is also the chance for a capital loss. The other thing to remember is that when you hear stories of someone who made a killing on the share market by placing all of their eggs in one basket, you seldom hear of individuals who tried the same thing and lost their money. Greed will eventually get the better of investors who thought they were smart enough to beat the market.

Mistake number two-Timidity

Playing it safe is risky. Being overcautious will mean that you miss out on opportunities which risk takers take advantage of. There is no suggestion that you should be reckless and ignore common sense precautions but in relationships you need to risk getting hurt in order to discover what you are looking for. As far as financial matters are concerned, you have to accept some level of risk but this is manageable by diversifying your portfolio. Managed Funds or Mutual Funds as they are also called is an excellent way for ordinary investors to get involved in the share market. In New Zealand, Kiwisaver, Sharesies, Kernel Wealth, Hatch, and Investnow are excellent platforms for ordinary investors to get involved in shares. If you are from the US you may want to look at Robinhood which operates in much the same way as Sharesies.

Mistake number three-Impatience

“It is time and not timing which is important in the share market,” is a cliche which is worth keeping in mind. Patience is a virtue and this is applicable to relationships and finances. Some people lack patience that they invest their money in abc shares then when their portfolio is stagnant they sell those and invest in def and sod’s law, the shares they sold at a lower price suddenly rises meaning they have missed out on any gains which would have recovered their losses. The share market is a long term gain. If you require the money in the short term then investing in shares may not be the right option. Bank deposit probably is but you have got to do your homework. 

It really is up to your own risk profile.

www.robertastewart.com