Don’t make money your first goal

Written by R. A. Stewart
To live a purposeful life one has to do something meaningful and that usually involves some kind of activity which does not involve getting paid or which costs you money.
Of course your first responsibility is your commitments. Take care of those but also spend some time doing whatever you enjoy doing, then you will have something to look forward to when you get home from work.
This is particularly so if you are in a job you hate.
It is soul-destroying when all you have to look forward to is your paycheck every week or month, and once that is gone you go through the same process over and over again.
There are some ways of getting out of a rut and one of these is to up skill but even that does not work for some people. I have known people to take courses in various subjects in order to improve their chances of getting a higher paying job and they still never seem to rise above working in a job which pays the minimum wage.
Paying for higher education with a student loan can pay off but if you are going to take this route then you had better make sure it is something you want to do otherwise it will be a waste of time and money. The key thing is to know how you are going to use this education. It will be a good idea to make a list of the jobs which you are available with the qualifications you are seeking to acquire.
It is important to do things for the right reasons and not try to fit in with what others are doing.
I have known people who have gone into study simply because others are doing or to impress others because they appear smart. Usually there is no thought of what they are going to do with their newly acquired skills, that is, if they have passed their exams.
Getting a higher paying job may not be all that it is cracked up to be if you weigh up all of the pros and cons. There are some things to consider.
- Will the increased income move you up to a higher tax bracket?
- Will you be spending less time with your family?
- Will you have more responsibility?
- Will you have to do more travelling as part of the job?
The bottom line is the extra stress which goes with the position may not be worth it and you may not be all that much better off financially anyway.
Life has to be lived in a balanced way in order for it to be meaningful. The bills have to be paid, but if you are able to turn a hobby into an income stream then you are living the dream. An ambition has to involve more than just earning money to buy stuff. Experiences with others cannot be purchased with money. Our family’s tradition was our Sunday afternoon game of cricket and it all began with just a cricket bat. We used boxes for wickets to start with then we cut up some saplings to use for wickets.
It just goes to show that you don’t need much money to create lifelong memories.
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